How to learn Japanese
To learn Japanese, start with hiragana and a handful of polite phrases, learn how a basic sentence is built (verb at the end, particles like は and を), and speak out loud from the first weeks. Add katakana, then kanji, gradually alongside regular speaking and listening practice.
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Learning Japanese from zero
Japanese looks intimidating because of its writing, but the spoken language is friendlier than it seems. It has five vowel sounds, no gendered nouns, no articles, and verbs that don't change for I, you or they. A common reason beginners stall is not the grammar. It is waiting too long to open their mouth.
This guide gives you a realistic order: learn the sounds and hiragana first, pick up polite everyday phrases, learn how a basic sentence is built, and start speaking out loud within the first few weeks. Kanji comes gradually, next to everything else, not as a gate you must pass before you are allowed to talk.
How long it takes depends on your goal and your hours. Japanese is in the US Foreign Service Institute's hardest group for English speakers, mostly because of kanji and a grammar that works differently from English. Simple conversations about yourself, food, directions and plans come much sooner than reading a novel. Measure progress by what you can say and understand, not by how many characters you have memorized.
A plan for your first three months
A steady 20 to 30 minutes a day beats a long session once a week. Adjust the pace to your life.
Month 1: sounds, hiragana and survival phrases
Learn hiragana one row at a time and read every new word in it instead of romaji. At the same time, memorize ten to fifteen phrases as whole chunks: こんにちは (konnichiwa), すみません (sumimasen), ありがとうございます (arigatō gozaimasu), お願いします (onegai shimasu), わかりません (wakarimasen). Say them out loud every day. Start katakana near the end of the month.
Month 2: polite sentence patterns
Learn the polite です and ます forms and the core particles は (wa), が (ga), を (o), に (ni) and で (de). Practice a few patterns until they are automatic: X は Y です (X is Y), X を ください (X, please), X が 好きです (I like X). Introduce yourself, order food and ask prices. Pick up a few simple kanji like 人, 日, 本 and 大 inside words you already know.
Month 3: short real conversations
Aim for two- to five-minute conversations on familiar topics: your work, your weekend, your family, your plans. Add the past (ました), the negative (ません) and wanting to do something (たいです). Expect lots of corrections; that is how the patterns stick. Start noticing casual forms once the polite ones feel comfortable.
The Japanese writing system, in order
Japanese uses three scripts together. Hiragana (46 basic characters) writes grammar endings, particles and many native words. Katakana (also 46) writes foreign loanwords and names, like コーヒー (kōhī, coffee). Kanji are characters borrowed from Chinese that carry meaning, like 山 (yama, mountain) or 食 in 食べます (tabemasu, to eat).
Learn hiragana first. It unlocks pronunciation, lets you read beginner materials, and gets you off romaji, which hides long vowels and double consonants. Katakana comes next and is quicker because you already know the sounds. For kanji, learn them inside real words you use, a few a day, rather than as isolated symbols. Beginner texts often print small hiragana above kanji (called furigana), so you can read before you know every character.
Grammar basics that matter most
The verb goes at the end
私は寿司を食べます (watashi wa sushi o tabemasu) is literally "I sushi eat." Once you expect the verb last, sentences become much easier to follow.
Particles do the heavy lifting
は (wa) marks the topic, を (o) the object, に (ni) a destination or time, and で (de) where an action happens. Word order can shift, but the particles keep the meaning clear.
Leave out the obvious
Japanese drops subjects that are clear from context. Saying 私は (watashi wa, I) in every sentence sounds stiff. 行きます (ikimasu) alone can mean I'm going.
Start polite
The です and ます forms are right for strangers, shop staff, coworkers and teachers. Casual forms are for friends and family. Learn polite first; it is never rude.
No plurals, no articles
本 (hon) can mean a book, the book or books. Context and counters like 二冊 (nisatsu, two volumes) handle the rest.
Speaking and listening practice
Speak from week one
Say every new phrase out loud, then use it in a short exchange. Speaking forces you to pick the particle and verb ending in real time, which reading alone never does. A tutor, a language partner or an AI tutor like Tooter all work here.
Shadow short clips
Play a sentence of clear, slow audio, pause, and repeat it with the same rhythm and pitch. A few minutes a day trains your mouth and your ear together.
Listen to things made for learners
Start with slow, clear speech: learner podcasts, simple dialogues and children's shows. Move to faster native content when you can catch the main idea.
Read simple texts
Graded readers and news written in easy Japanese for learners build reading speed without a dictionary on every line. Read aloud when you can.
Common beginner mistakes
Calling people あなた
あなた (anata) is in every textbook, but in conversation it can sound distant or even rude. Use the person's name with さん (san) instead: 田中さん (tanaka-san).
Adding さん to your own name
さん is a sign of respect for others. Introduce yourself with just your name: サムです (samu desu), I'm Sam.
Ignoring long vowels and double consonants
They change meaning. おばさん (obasan) is aunt, おばあさん (obāsan) is grandmother. きて (kite) means come, きって (kitte) means stamp.
Saying さようなら every day
さようなら (sayōnara) can sound final, like you won't see someone for a while. With friends say じゃあね (jā ne) or またね (mata ne). At work, say お先に失礼します (osaki ni shitsurei shimasu) when you leave first.
Leaning on romaji too long
Romaji is fine for a week or two. After that it slows you down and hides pronunciation details. Switch to hiragana as soon as you can.
A simple weekly routine
About two and a half hours a week. Swap days around as you like; just keep speaking in the mix.
| Day | What to do | Time |
|---|---|---|
| Monday | Review kana or kanji and learn 10 new words | 20 min |
| Tuesday | Study one grammar pattern and write five sentences with it | 20 min |
| Wednesday | Speaking practice with a tutor or partner | 15 min |
| Thursday | Shadow a short audio clip, then say it from memory | 15 min |
| Friday | Read a simple text aloud and note new words | 20 min |
| Saturday | A longer conversation on one topic (food, travel, family) | 30 min |
| Sunday | Light review and something fun in Japanese | 15 min |
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Questions learners ask
How can I learn Japanese by myself?
Learn hiragana first, then a set of polite everyday phrases and the basic sentence pattern. Practice a little every day with shadowing, simple reading and speaking out loud. Get feedback on your speaking regularly, from a tutor, a partner or an AI tutor, so mistakes don't harden into habits.
How long does it take to learn Japanese?
It depends on your goal and your hours. Basic polite conversations are reachable in months of steady practice, while reading comfortably with kanji takes years. The US Foreign Service Institute places Japanese in its hardest group for English speakers, at about 88 weeks of full-time study.
How do you say 1 to 10 in Japanese?
ichi, ni, san, yon (or shi), go, roku, nana (or shichi), hachi, kyū and jū. In kanji: 一, 二, 三, 四, 五, 六, 七, 八, 九, 十. See our Japanese numbers page for tens, hundreds and counting objects.
Should I learn hiragana or start speaking first?
Do both at once. Hiragana takes a few weeks of short daily practice, and you can learn spoken phrases in parallel. Waiting until you can read before you speak only delays the skill you need most in conversation.
Do I need kanji to speak Japanese?
Not to speak. You can hold real conversations without knowing kanji. You need them to read signs, menus and messages, so add them gradually through words you already use.
How can I learn to speak Japanese?
Start with polite set phrases like はじめまして (hajimemashite, nice to meet you) and the です and ます forms, and say them out loud every day. Shadow short audio clips to copy the rhythm, then practice real situations, like ordering food, with a partner, a teacher or an AI tutor.
How do I say "I speak a little Japanese"?
日本語が少し話せます (nihongo ga sukoshi hanasemasu). If you get lost, すみません、日本語がわかりません (sumimasen, nihongo ga wakarimasen) means "Sorry, I don't understand Japanese."
How do you say "excuse me" in Japanese?
すみません (sumimasen). It works for getting someone's attention, squeezing past people and small apologies, and it can even mean "thank you" when someone goes out of their way for you.
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Updated October 28, 2026. Tooter tutors are AI characters, not human teachers. Romanization follows Hepburn romanization.





